stop classing me as fat or bbw

[clogselfe]

... put me in a negative light ...

I think nobody puts you in a negative light, when your pictures appear on chubby sites. But i would say 'fat' is the wrong word. But your tits are fat and very, very nice. All in all i think you are a very sexy woman and the category is not important.
But it is important, that, when somebody looks on a bbw site, he can find your pics. That he can find you! I found you because of this thread! The way somebody finds you doesn't matter.
When i tried to find pics of you in askjolene.com, i found a lot of fantastic galleries of you. If it's 'fat', 'chubby', 'bbw' or anything else doesn't matter to me. It's a fact: you are sexy!

 

[BlueBalls]

Oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooookay :thumbsup:

 

[No_Man]

Telling one message board of people you dont like being classed as "fat" or "bbw" changes nothing, its the old opinions are assholes situation, your problem is with the people who post your pics, not the people who look at them. We might not class you as overweight, some might, but what we think or dont think about them is irrelevant.

That was exactly what I was thinking. Its the nature of internet publishing. You're very vulnerable. You can't tell people, "I only want you to look at these pics of me, or think of me in these terms." The pics are out there, and people will think what they think and say what they say. Just like every other pornstar, blogger, musician or anybody else publishing on the internet.

Personally, I would recommend getting out of porn sooner rather than later. Doing porn takes thick skin and nerves of steel. I'm afraid you're just going to hurt yourself - physically or emotionally - if you keep doing it.

 

[KatjaKassin]

I feel you. I've been called chubby, phat, fat etc. all my career in porn and it used to bother me big time at first but now I really don't care anymore. who cares? I bet when you walk around in public wearing a tight top showing cleavage, guys are just drooling over you. So it's all good.

 

[denise davies]

Thanks katia.the thing is I have been in the industry for 10 years and its only been the last few years I have been getting put on those sites so thats why it annoys me so much.

 

[denise davies]

Are you originaly from England Katja I think I have seen comments about you posted on bgafd

 

[spartan7]

Looks like you've lost some weight, but from looking at the pics on your site, the fact of the matter is that you are/were a chubster.

 

[anomaly]

Hey Denise! You are not a plumper or what I would call a BBW. I see a BBW as a rather large woman. You are voluptuous and sexy. Even if you are on a few plumper or BBW sites don't sweat it. I don't think any guy would have a problem with having you on their arm or in their bed:thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:

 

[bodie54]

Thanks katia.the thing is I have been in the industry for 10 years and its only been the last few years I have been getting put on those sites so thats why it annoys me so much.

That's because the niche has become more popular. It's all about advertising and the $

 

[denise davies]

maybe il get my boobs reduced lol

 

[anomaly]

Denise Davies[/URL][/B], post: 2537672, member: 235678"]maybe il get my boobs reduced lol

nooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!

 

[denise davies]

Thank you anomaly I appreciate that.

 

[Friday on my mind]

nooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:nono:

 

[denise davies]

I hear ya bodie Its an American thing im sure.English people are so much different.I dont know why bbw has become such a big thing and I hope it isnt a big thing for long lol

 

[DOA82]

Are you even bothering to read half the replies on this thread? You seem to quote the ones that are all rays of happy sunshine to your dilemma, from what started off as a supposed harsh critique over your labelling, you make seem like a joke or not as near serious as you were preaching about earlier. Head in the sand syndrome? Read what you wanna hear, block out the nasty bad mens comments eh?

 

[denise davies]

If anyone wants to see me in the flesh as I do cam shows on a friday night through my site.I like doing cam shows because your seeing the real me.we all have out own oppinions so im leaving it at that.

 

[icemantaz]

If anyone wants to see me in the flesh as I do cam shows on a friday night through my site.I like doing cam shows because your seeing the real me.we all have out own oppinions so im leaving it at that.

is it free :dunno:

 

[24788]

Thanks katia.the thing is I have been in the industry for 10 years and its only been the last few years I have been getting put on those sites so thats why it annoys me so much.

Wow, all someone had to do was tell you not to care? I'm pretty sure you should have done that from the beginning. It's probably easier to do so if you know someone else in that situation though.

For being fat, you don't seem like the typical fat female. You would need to get tested for your body percentage of fat (Then you would know for sure). It's always higher for a female due to boobs and wider hips. I can get mine down safely to 4% as a male, females can't do that or else they'd probably die. I think the lowest is around 7-9% for a female.

Good Luck

 

[jo-nathan]

Denise, be your own person, dont let all the sites that label you a certain way get to you. If someone calls you fat or what ever tell the to f**k off and go on with your life. Americans (and I am one and proud to be) do have a problem of classifying people fat that I think are not, and you are not, busty yes!!!

 

[Spleen]

to me personaly bbw means your fat and its derogitry to me

What about all the women out there who are proud to be BBW... You come along and call them fat and say it's an insult? I would of thought you'd have more respect for others, seeing as you claim to be "a woman with feelings".