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BrandiLove

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JoePa is Still Grandpa to Me

I have been overwhelmed and quite honestly humbled by the number of requests for my take on the Penn state / Joe Paterno situation. The first thing I’d like to say is thank you for caring about my opinion! Secondly, please don’t take my silence for apathy. I must… and I wish everyone would look at cases like this with a critical and cautious eye… for the sake of the potential victim(s) and the accused.
Keep in mind that I was the victim of false accusations at one point in my life. With no warning or cause my life was turned upside down for a period of roughly 14 months. It was the darkest period of my life. The experience taught me that judgment should be reserved until all of the facts are in.
The first thing I need to look at are facts and emotion needs to be left at the door. while the facts of this situation are still coming in here is what we know at this point:

a. It was a Penn State graduate assistant who allegedly SAW the abuse.
b. This grad student saw the abuse and chose to walk away.
c. He went home and told his father about what he saw.
d. The grad student & the father returned to inform Joe Paterno about the abuse.
e. The grad student & the father did not go to the police.
f. Paterno received this third party description of events and informed the people he reports to… university administration.
g. We now know that there was a 1998 grand jury “investigation”
h. This grand jury chose NOT to pursue the case
i. In 2002 the charity at the heart of this case was informed.
j. This charity took no action.
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The second thing I need to look at is the context of events & in his shoes, in his position what would I have done?
I posed this scenario to a couple we had dinner with last night. She holds a very senior level position in a banking system and her husband works for himself, in the entertainment industry. Their perspectives were interestingly influenced by their employment situations. I asked “her”…. ” If an employee and his father came to you and described seeing the sexual abuse of another employee or even a child on company property .. what would you do as an employee of the company?” Her answer.. ” I would absolutely inform my superiors”.
Interestingly, her husband was miffed by this answer. He could not believe that she wouldn’t go immediately to the police.
So where does that leave me and my opinion at this point. I feel horrible for Paterno and believe the media should be ashamed of itself for handling this situation the way they have. I also believe Joe should sue Penn State for his firing.
Paterno didn’t sit on this information… he did NOT attempt to hide it… on the day he received the information he informed his superiors… as he should as a man in his position hearing a third party account. The bigger question for me is why the hell didn’t the grad student step in? How can you leave a child to be raped in a shower? I say this with all sincerity… If I see, with my own eyes, a child being abused… I will seriously injure & potentially kill the abuser and ask for forgiveness later. As a human being & mother I would be incapable of leaving that child to be raped.
So let’s assume this grad assistant is a colossal pussy and has the mental constitution of a fruit fly… why didn’t HE go to the authorities? Why didn’t the father upon hearing the account drag his son to the police?
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At this point… the only person who DID anything positive was Joe .. he informed university administration.. as he should have IMHO.
In hindsight, and based upon what we know today, Joe’s decision to inform university administration looks even MORE RATIONAL considering what we know about the 1998 grand jury outcome…. they did not feel there was enough evidence to move forward.
This does.. or should raise another question….. If there was a grand jury .. the authorities WERE involved. How did they come to be involved? A grand jury cannot be convened unless there has been a criminal investigation… someone said something to law enforcement at some point. Who, what , where, when & why?
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Some additional thoughts…
Victim No. 2, who is at the heart of what has been termed the Penn State Child Sex Abuse Scandal, has not only failed to come forward to police or prosectors, but cannot even be identified or found.
We may discover in the civil or criminal actions that will certainly arise from this scandal, that JoePa did all he is required to do by law or were allowed to do by other parties to the incident. I am not sure. And none of us can be sure. But, right now, with only the testimony of a single eyewitness, Mr. McQueary, we cannot even be legally certain that the Penn State Board of Trustees did the correct thing in firing Mr. Paterno; a termination that could be grounds for a lawsuit by this legendary coach, especially if he is found to be blameless in all regards.
As Nick DiNunzio made clear in his Crotty on Education guest column yesterday, certitude on such matters, let alone moral certitude on the alleged crimes and cover-up, is not possible until we have all the facts. And we don’t have all the facts. We don’t yet have a trial. We don’t have much of anything about the critical 2002 incident, except one eyewitness account and a whole bunch of speculation and hearsay. Which is why, though I am deeply troubled by the many allegations –*which go far beyond the critical 2002 incident –*I am in no rush to judgment. And I urge everyone, who respects the American legal system, and the rights to the presumption of innocence and due process that we supposedly hold dear, to show the same mature restraint.
I am equally troubled that recently we have seen the tremendous harm that is done when a media-stoked clan convicts a person before all the facts are known and before the accused has his or her day in court. Remember the Duke Lacross case? Remember the allegations against Kobe? Or how about by way of example, Richard Jewell, the security guard falsely accused of the Centennial Olympic Park bombing at the 1996 Atlanta Summer Olympics. Jewell had his life turned upside down by a rush to judgment and died an early death at age 44. If JoePa meets this fate before all of the facts of this situation are known.. his blood is on the hands of all those now crucifying him. And if he is found to be one of the few who actually did do what he was supposed to.. report it to his superiors and this fate befalls him… I hope there is a special place in hell reserved for you.
Then there are cases such as the 2004, John Stoll case in Bakersfield, California. This poor guy was finally released after twenty years in prison for alleged child molestation. This is because it was discovered that four of the accusers had made up false stories of molestation under pressure from an overzealous prosecutor. An alleged fifth victim couldn’t remember much. And the sixth, Stoll’s own son, was found to have been pressured into testifying against Stoll by his mother. Twenty-two other convictions have since been overturned in Bakersfield for similar reasons.
Then as reported in the Forbes article, there was the recent case of former IMF chief Dominique Strauss-Kahn, an arrogant scumbag if there ever was one, who walks free today in large part because of a rush to judgment about his alleged sexual assault of a maid in suite 2806 of the Sofitel Hotel on May 14th of this year. Strauss-Kahn was tried first in the court of public opinion, and, because of their own rush to judgment, prosecutors fully trusted in an unreliable victim and sole witness to the alleged assault. After it was shown that the maid lied about her background and immigration status and had made suspicious calls to her jailed boyfriend, she lost all credibility and, thus, Strauss-Kahn was set free.
The hallmark of our justice system and central to our country’s soul is that we strive to give a fair trial to even the most reprehensible among us. But when we create a climate of irrational hysteria, no one gets a fair trial, real criminals go free, and victims are re-victimized all over again.
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For now…. I stand by Paterno one of the only people in this whole mess who actually did something back when this all started.

xxx
Brandi
 

Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
I've always liked Paterno, and I'm sad this is how he's going out. I've always thought he was one of the greatest coaches ever...collage or pro...but if I were in his shoes, I would have kicked the fucking shit out of this sick little baby rapper, then I would have turned him over to the kids fathers, and let them have at him. Joe may have followed the rules, but how do you look at yourself in the mirror, knowing all you did was what you had to? As I've HEARD it, he witnessed this guy doing shit, first hand....how in the fuck do you walk away from that? Could you? If it were my kid, I would want his head shoved in a weight machine, and his skull caved in.
 
Once again Brandy you prove that your wisdom and intelligence indeed outshines your unbelievable beauty and wonderfully lustful sexual passions...and THAT is meant as a compliment! You hit the nail right on the head and I couldn't agree more with you...thanks for who you are, what you do, and the inspiration you are for all of us in the lifestyle!
 

BrandiLove

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Could not agree more. Had "I" seen it yes the man would not have walked out of the showerroom. Here is my issue.... facts. We have a fuck load of allegations and people are very quick to crucify without ALL the facts. I certainly understand the emotional aspect of this case however I personally refuse to murder someone publicly until I do have the facts. Mcqueary is the one who SAW is supposedly and he walked away leaving the child...WTF! The alleged child that was harmed in said incident is still to come forward. SO how can we call Joe the things we haev with out such crucial FACTS? Thats all I am saying. If certain facts are proven I could not agree with you more darlin. There is NO worse crime than that on an innocent.I also agree with you that IF it were my child the man most likely would not see his day it court... I would ensure it.... but if it were my kid I would have come forward to make sure the right people were put away.

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Brandi
 

BrandiLove

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Once again Brandy you prove that your wisdom and intelligence indeed outshines your unbelievable beauty and wonderfully lustful sexual passions...and THAT is meant as a compliment! You hit the nail right on the head and I couldn't agree more with you...thanks for who you are, what you do, and the inspiration you are for all of us in the lifestyle!


Thanks for the kind words. This is a horrible slew of allegations and nightmare for all involved. I know I am not apparently taking a popular stand but I am trying to look at it rationally and from a logical point right now. Emotions more than once have put innocent people away. There are so many facts not known at this point. We hear pedophile and child sex crimes and of course blood boils. It is disgusting and only the worse kind of person could do such a thing. The scary part? So many people in this particular case are being labeled without facts. The media has name called and pressed certain "ideas" as facts and people have already formed opinions based on emotion. When asked if my kid what would I do? I would make sure the right people went down I can promise you that. When asked why this case has a fire under my ass here's why. I was accused of things I was innocent of years ago. I had to fight in court for my innocence. 2 years of hell to prove allegations made were false and unwarranted. You can't get those years back. Our judicial system is very flawed. You are not innocent until proven guilty..... In our world anyone can say anything Make whatever accusation they want) some heel of an attorney will take the case..... and your guilty UNLESS you can prove your innocent. Perfect example.... Duke lacrosse case. That was not long ago guys, have we already forgotten. That lying piece of shit woman ruined innocent college guys lives for months and frankly forever. They will always live with the torture that that case was. People can, with words and allegations.... forever put a lable on someone. Sometimes that someone is not deserving. What I hope for this case..... any and all people involved in the harming, or hiding of the harming of these alleged children ..... fry. If facts can not substantiate the allegations? you tell me.

Here is another example of what causes me issue with the Judicial system..... "Justn Bieber is my baby daddy". Did any of you see her interview? This girl claiming Bieber was aggressive with her and that she got pregnant after being with him... couldn't hold a straight face. I am not a professional face reader but I have never been more certain I was watching a liar. Couldn't think of a response to a question she cried and then left. WTF! This little shit has already dropped the case. Bieber, minding his own fucking business is all of a sudden all over the news and media as "a cheater, fallen from grace, not so innocent, fan fucker." you name he was it. And all based on some twat wanting to see herself on tv. If legit, she would have contacted him and had a DNA test done before EVER going to the press. Get the damn facts first. Why is this a lost practice? Anyway sorry for the rant.... I sense Jamesbond you understand what I am saying. You give me faith I am not alone in this quest for truth:)

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Brandi
 
Brandi, beautiful and hot with intelligence and wisdom ! The best woman that you can see
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Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
Could not agree more. Had "I" seen it yes the man would not have walked out of the showerroom. Here is my issue.... facts. We have a fuck load of allegations and people are very quick to crucify without ALL the facts. I certainly understand the emotional aspect of this case however I personally refuse to murder someone publicly until I do have the facts. Mcqueary is the one who SAW is supposedly and he walked away leaving the child...WTF! The alleged child that was harmed in said incident is still to come forward. SO how can we call Joe the things we haev with out such crucial FACTS? Thats all I am saying. If certain facts are proven I could not agree with you more darlin. There is NO worse crime than that on an innocent.I also agree with you that IF it were my child the man most likely would not see his day it court... I would ensure it.... but if it were my kid I would have come forward to make sure the right people were put away.

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Brandi

I just think he used poor judgment. I agree, he deserves his day in court, and dragging him through the public muck, isn't going to help. I just seem to see a pattern with MOST football factories....they put status, and revenue above everything else. I personally, would have at the very least would have gone to my boss, and told him, get rid of this fucking scum bag, because I've spent 40 years building one of the most illustrious careers in collage ball, and I'm not having a kiddie diddler, taking me, or this team down.

The fact is, we'll probably never REALLY know all of the facts....I guess I just expected more from a guy like Paterno. Like I said, I think he dropped the ball, morally...even if he did follow the letter of the law.

Are you an alumni of Penn State...or just a fan of the team?
 

BrandiLove

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I just think he used poor judgment. I agree, he deserves his day in court, and dragging him through the public muck, isn't going to help. I just seem to see a pattern with MOST football factories....they put status, and revenue above everything else. I personally, would have at the very least would have gone to my boss, and told him, get rid of this fucking scum bag, because I've spent 40 years building one of the most illustrious careers in collage ball, and I'm not having a kiddie diddler, taking me, or this team down.

The fact is, we'll probably never REALLY know all of the facts....I guess I just expected more from a guy like Paterno. Like I said, I think he dropped the ball, morally...even if he did follow the letter of the law.

Are you an alumni of Penn State...or just a fan of the team?


Actually love I am neither per se'. And don't think for a second I do not understand and totally her your point. I am just trying to open peoples eyes to focusing on the facts. Not the allegations or media bullshit. I just wish people were more careful with pointing fingers before crucifying. I would venture to say MOST people want the bad guy put away. I also think MOST people are way to quick to pick a bad guy. I appreciate your points of view love and lets keep our fingers crossed that this is resolved and that the the truth may come out. I fear as you said...... we may never know:(

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Brandi
 
Well said, and I completely agree. She deserves respect and I truly appreciate everything she does for her fans. I would be honored if I had a chance with her.

Ditto.


Wow Brandi Love a member? What an odd and fortunate coincidence. Dear Brandi, I recently posted a question in the 'Watch That Video' section about you. Unfortunately, I got no response. The question was about a video clip of you that I saw that really turned me on. The scenario was that you had just gotten home after having been out with a girlfriend and you were going down on your husband while you were telling him what a naughty girl you had been. You had met some guys and partied with them and given them head (not sure if you did more than that as it was a partial clip). This very much reminds me of the kinda of stuff my wife says in bed and you did it so well. It was a very 'real' looking and sounding video fortunately lacking any of the over-the-top crap that too many porno videos tend to include.

Anyway, if you have any more videos like that one I'd love to see them and if you don't may I recommend that there might be many more guys like me who would enjoy such scenarios.

All the best.

Cheetah
 
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