A mother, her pornstar daughter - what is your take on it?

[pussy+dickdenice]

One person commented:

Why the conditional tense? She is not the child you would have raised, she is the daughter you raised. That she is a porn star has no bearing on those other qualities.

I apologise for the strong wording but you just have to tell your sister to mind her own business. I can't say I'd be thrilled if any of my children made their livings in the porn industry but how I would choose to handle my childrens' life choices would be "no go" territory with one of my siblings, just as it's none of your business to tell her how to handle her children.

I can't believe how pushy relatives can be. You don't sound like you would disrespect the same boundaries wrt your sister and her family so perhaps what is happening with your sister is part of the dynamic between you....you are more passive and she is very aggressive/opinionated, tells you what to do and judges you. How do you think she would react if you told her how to interact with her family members? The answer to that question may help me and others to understand how it is that your sister feels comfortable criticising your parenting decisions. I think it's quite odd, but evidently you don't. In fact you sound as if you feel guilty that you haven't done exactly as she said.

Problem solved

 

[Ace Bandage]

Her mom just sounds like a lonely bitch. I'll bet that if the daughter sent over one of her co-stars to cheer up the mother, she'd be singing a different tune.

Of course the mother doesn't want her baby girl working in porn. But if that's the career that she chose, then she better start embracing (or at least tolerating) it if she wants a relationship with her. It sounds like the daughter is being responsible about what she's doing. She should at least be proud of her for that. The mother may not ever be totally comfortable with the idea, but she should learn to accept it over time.

 

[LukeEl]

If I had a daughter that did porn and she was of legal age, I would tell her that she's an adult old and wise enough to make her own decisions. However my policy would be simple I don't want to see any of her bodies of work, nor hear about it. Aside from that I would tell her to invest her money wisely from what she makes, don't do drugs, find a lucrative and sucessful studio to work for, no gangbangs, get me Jonathan Morgan's autograph and a bumper sticker that reads "My Daughter Won The AVN Award For Best Girl/Girl Scene"

 

[PlasmaTwa2]

If I had a daughter that did porn and she was of legal age, I would tell her that she's an adult old and wise enough to make her own decisions. However my policy would be simple I don't want to see any of her bodies of work, nor hear about it. Aside from that I would tell her to invest her money wisely from what she makes, don't do drugs, find a lucrative and sucessful studio to work for, no gangbangs, get me Jonathan Morgan's autograph and a bumper sticker that reads "My Daughter Won The AVN Award For Best Girl/Girl Scene"

And let's just close the thread here before the weirdos start showing up...

 

[pussy+dickdenice]

And let's just close the thread here before the weirdos start showing up...

Let them, show their face and you will have the 1st refusal, Plasma.

But to me 70% of our members are capable of carrying on with a rational and intelligent discussion. Others, to me, don't count.

 

[pussy+dickdenice]

I don't know, why any one is not looking at it from the POV of a 14 year old girl, who just had lost her father, Take care of a devastated mother and two younger sister.

One fine morning with a single stroke of luck, She was the MAN of the house. What options she had?

 

[squallumz]

hot, i wonder who she is. i suddenly have to urge to .. you know.